Lessons Learned

• When a person schedules you in and commits to hanging out they are saying that other people's time is important to them.
• Most homosexuals might want sex but a majority of them are looking for a connection.  Eventually you must choose whether or not the first conversations and interactions to connect will have a clothing optional sign attached.
• It's not fair to judge people on their past relationships nor how they choose to deal with it.  It is fair to judge them on how their past relationships effect you and how they center themselves in the process.  We all handle stress in various ways, how it's projected on ourselves and others is the true lesson if we've processed the breakup or are still holding on.
• Not all parents live forever, in fact some pass earlier than expect.  Save the incestuous jokes until after you find out the homosexuals parents are still alive and sexually active.
• Spontaneous activities that follow uncharted trails and misadventure can determine if a person trusts your judgment to lead the way or is confident enough to let you follow them.
• A person's reaction to nature, plants, animals, soil, rivers, climate and human nature will show you their connection to the cosmos.
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